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ok well me and this guy went out for bout a month and i i just felt like i needed to break up with him so i did and that was two days ago. well ever since i broke up with him he has to know everythin bout me... who i'm talkin to... what i'm talkin to people bout and it is gettin on my last nevers. like i was talkin to one of my friends (that is a guy) and my ex was standdin beside me trytin to see what i was tellin my friend that i was talkin to. and every time i talk to one of my friends that's a guy he like butts in and is all like what is she tellin you (he says that to the people i'm talkin to) but they don't ever tell him and luckily i have alot of guy friends so they all stick up for me but he is startin to get on my last nerve and i really don't know what to do... so someone PLEASE halp me!!

i think that you should tell him to back off and be honest with him abotu how you think he needs to let you go. i know i know i know... easier said than done. it will take a while for you tog et the nerve to di that but you need to tell him "hey, you and i broke up and i think that we need to move on. by breaking up, it gives us both freedom and your not giving me any!" just see what he says back! i hope i helped more than that shake guy! gee wizz!!
-luv Dana

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