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My ex-boyfriend and I have remained friends for the past 2 1/2 years after we broke up. We haven't seen each other in 2 years. He lives many states away from me. A year ago, he started living with this girl and had a relationship with her. He broke up with her a couple of months ago. We made plans for me to visit him at the end of May. They got back together a week ago.

I mean, he still wants me to come too. He's still excited to see me. He said she's cool with it too. It's so painful to know he's back with her. But I want to see him, I need to see him.

I don't understand, when all he talked about was breaking up with her for months before he actually did it. He always told me he didn't want to be with her. And so now...? I mean, he told me he stayed with her for as long as he did because of her kid (from a previous relationship). He adores the kid. I think that's a big part of the reason he got back with her.

Is it hopeless for me to even want to be with him? I love him and I want this friendship more than anything. He really cares about his friendships and friends...and I'm a good friend to him...like a best friend...and I know he wants that. But how and why? Why not more? Does more ever come out of it?

Tell him how YOU feel. if he really loves you and not this other girl, he will understand where you ar coming from. you need to be open and make sure he knows that you want to be with him. if he already knows that and he is still with this other girl, he may be very confused right now and may be unsure of what to do. as a freind, you need to support him with whichever decision he makes. Set more trips to visit and be sure he sees how awsome you are. he needs to know you like him, and if he doesn't understand, no matter how hard, you have to move on.

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(Rating: 5) Thank you for your advice. I never thought about telling him. I'm going to wait until I see him for the first time. I'm so nervous to see him!
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