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Hey ya'll!!! I'm from Tennessee, I'm 15 nd in 10th grade.... I'm considered the "Dr. Phil" of many of the groups I'm in and so when one of my friends introduced me to this, I decided to join.... I'm a strong Christian, recently saved & baptised and I sometimes use God in my answers so if you're offended by that, too bad (I don't say sry for that).... Ask me w/e and I'll try to answer it to the best of my ability... If, for w/e reason, you don't wanna ask me somethin on my board but still wanna ask me it, IM me on whichever IM service you have and I'll get back to you.... Peace ya'll and Good Luck with whateva... ~Cory~

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I was thinking... When is avrage age to have your first kiss and how far should u be in a relationship... This is my first relationship, and i love him and we've been gong out for 6 months,,, When should you? I have no clue!!! I havent had my first kiss but lately I've been thinking about it...
I want to kiss him... but somthing doesnt seem right,,,and i was talking to my mom and she asked me if i would tell her if my boyfriend kissed me,,, should I tell her?



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Well, first off, there's not necessarily a "set" average age for kissing but most middle schoolers tend to jump in.... but I just got my first kiss a few weeks ago and i'm 14 and i have a lot of friends in my high school with me who haven't kissed anyone yet.... but love, especially kissing and definately "moving forward" is mostly just a "feel-it-along" kinda thing... you'll know no doubt when both of ya'll truly are ready for ya'lls first kiss..... if something doesn't quite feel right about it, wait until it does (and whatever you do, NEVER let him force you along faster than you're ready and you don't do the same to him)... the feeling may not come with him - the feeling to REALLY kiss my last girlfriend never came and we were planning to go out thru it all and get married WITH children but we ended up breaking up because of some differences that hadn't yet come to light... just feel it along and when the time for the first magic comes, you'll kno - trust me....
And about tellin your mom, only do it if you feel comfortable... i haven't even told my sister yet and she's already out of college and i confide in her about a lot of stuff... but if you and your mom are close enough for you to feel comfortable passing that kind of information along, do it. But if not, don't worry about it.

Hope I helped...
~Cory~

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(Rating: 5) Thanks your right.. if im not ready.. he is hes 15... im 13 lol idk.. thanks!!
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