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I think that this guy that rides my bus is attracted to me and he is really sweet. I've never had a boyfriend before so I don't know what to expect. Plus, he happens to be my friends brother aswell. He always stare at me and turns away when i look, and when he thinks I'm not looking he stares again. Anyways recently i have admitted that I really do like him. I told my friend that I liked her brother. How do i get to know him better as a friend first without sounding like an idiot? And once I am friends with him how can I get him to take that step forward with me? I'm just trying to figure out what I need to do to see if he's into me or not? Please help.

You should probably just find some things that you have in common with him. Or if you feel comfortable around him, you can talk about totally random things. And you should be able to feel comfortable around him, if you want to possibly date him in the future. But as for finding things you have in common - there are so many possibilities to learn more about him. What kinds of music does he like? Maybe it's the same ones you do. What movies or tv shows? Does he play any sports? Just talk to him like you would any other friend...and good luck!

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(Rating: 5) Thanks for your advice!! I really appreciate it.
~Linda
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