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[x][edit] - Since being on Advicenators there have been a lot of repetitive questions and innane ones at that. Because of this, I will not be answering as many questions as I had before. To put it simply, some people need to think for themselves. To learn things in life we have to fall down from our hardships, learn from them, and get to our feet again. People aren't just going to spoonfeed you on how to live your life.
To conclude, I'm a level-minded columnist who's not likely to judge. Although I may not understand some situations due to lack of experience, I am an understanding person and will do all I can to help. To people who are "not the brightest crayon in the box", I may appear blunt and brutally honest. Stupid questions deserve stupid answers.
And yes, stupid questions DO exist.
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There is this guy i like. lets call him k. but like 5 other girls do too. But this might sound like something everyone would say, but i've liked k the longest. one of my friends, lets call her r, who also likes k started liking him after me and when k found out we both liked him, he told my other friend, s, he liked both of us back. now that was a while ago. then r, went out with someone totally different, we'll call him a. but then a broke up with r like 2 weeks later and r started liking k again. now all this time, i've liked k. NOW, my other friend, L, likes k also!!! but i've talked to both of them and my friend r says that even though she likes k, she knows how much i do and that i could have him. i guess. then L told me that she knows how long i've liked k and that she knows how it feels to not get the one that you want and to watch someone else have him. (thats a different story). but then if i get k, i'll feel really bad for all the others who like him, even though i've been waiting forever to have him, even before i knew anyone else liked him. please help. i dont know what to do.
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It doesn't matter if you knew him the longest, all of the other girls have an equal chance of getting him regardless.
The thing that I hate about these type of questions is that you girls always think or ask us "How do I make the guy notice me, like me, or ask me out?" It's his decision as much as it is yours for liking him. If he likes you, he'll act upon his instincts and ask you out. If not, tough luck.
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i never said i wanted to know how to make him notice me, like me, or ask me out. i want to know what to do in the situation i'm in, and if he does ask one of us out, what should we do? Should we go out with him or should we stick by our friends and have no one like him. but he asked out one of my friends today.... L.... and she said yes, so i'm over it.
thanx anyway
~E
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