Hey guys and girls.. My name's kenzi. I've go around all the time giving advice to my friends and fixing problems that mostly aren't mine. Believe it or not i do care about YOU. I care about your problems and i care about helping you fix them. Please ask me anything.. even if you're kinda confused.. maybe i can help. Don't be afraid and don't be embarassed to ask me nething! i will do my absolute best to help you. I've been through a lot and have a lot of knowledge. Many people call me an "old soul" which is kind of annoying but true. I am an all around positive person and i will do my absolute best to help you with your problems.. don't hesitate to contact me netime.. hope to help!
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ok. heres the deal. im 14 yrs. old and have this 18 yr. old boyfriend. i will be 15 in july . well we started going out 2 weeks ago. i know its not a long time but ive been crushin on this guy for like 2 monthes and he finally asked me out. i was soo happy. so i wanted my parents to meet him so we could go out to places and stuff. so he came over and stayed for an hour or so then we went out. well i lied to my parents saying he was only 17. bc if they found out he was 18 theyd flip out and not let me see him. well my parents found out he was 18 . i dont know how though. they wont tell me. so im not allowed to be with him. he gave me his necklace to wear and my dad took it and has it right now. he's not allowed to call me and i cant call him and i cant chill with him or anything. im not allowed to even chill with him at school either. isnt that crazy!? so anyways my parents hate his guts. they say he's an ass and he's way too old for me but i dont think he is. i really like him. he bought me a white gold diamond heart necklace. i love it! so i dont know what to do. my dad wants him to stay away from me and if he dont then they'll get him arrested for being with a minor. ive tried convincing my parents this past week begging, crying to just let me be with him. they just yelled at me more. my parents think im not a virgin anymore either and that im doing drugs. so they took me to get drug tested. they got the results back yesterday and im clean. :) . so i dont know what to do. help (link)
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ok well first off tell them obviously they're wrong about a lot because they were wrong about you doing drugs. Then tell them that they can see the guy cares about you if a. he's risking all this and b. he gave you such an expensive gift.. maybe also mention the fact that they are hypocrits because they liked him when they thought he was 17. tell your parents you want to see him and (be mature) tell them that they need to let you make your own decisions.. you are almost 15.. make sure you talk to them sensibly.. let them find for themselves that you are mature enough to have an 18 year old boyfriend.. hope i helped sweets
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Thanx for the advice. well me him rnt together nemore. he's a complete asshole. he cheated on me , lied to me , and that necklace he gave me has been with a couple of his other g/f's. so i learned and i guess my parents were right...again. i hate life.
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