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So there's this guy, right? And I used to have quite a crush on him. He liked me somewhat too. So I wrote him a note. I told him I liked him.
That was a while ago, and my feelings have faded, but now he likes me! And I'm sure he assumes it's mutual, since I wrote that note, and I haven't said anything since. The problem is, we're really good friends and we talk a lot. I'm worried that he's interpreting it as flirting, which it isn't, at least not intentionally. I really don't want to lead him on, he's sweet.
So, my question(s> is(are): Is there any way to read his feelings, and how can I flir--talk to him less without comprimising the friendship? (link)
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YOu can usually tell if a guy fancies you if he wants to spend more time with you than his mates, if he prolongs his eye contact with you, teases you, touches you briefly when he's talking such as on the shoulder or back.
Try not to flirt with him as that will give him hints that you fancy him back.
Could you say in a passing comment how nice it is to be single at the moment?
As long as you treat him as you would any other friend then he should get the message sooner or later!
Good luck!
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"Could you say in a passing comment how nice it is to be single at the moment?"
Great idea, thank you!
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