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Q: Ok alot of people i know think that i'm not a virgin ( even my own family). I haven't had sex and so what i know alot about sex. and they think i've given oral too.which i have not.i tell them over and over again but thyey don't belive me. And ruemers are already goin around that i'm a ho. What can i do to make them belive me?
Do you dress provacatively? if you do, stop. Tell your mom to take you to the gyno- the doc can check to see if your hymen is broken which usually only happens during sex (unless you shove tampons up there really hard) and she can tell your mom that youre still a virgin. Hopefull she can eventually trust you about oral too. You can't do anything about school really- if you cock tease the boys, theyll think youre a slut. If you dress skimpy, the girls will think youre a slut. So be good, don't worry so much about other people. Theyll forget about it eventually if you act right. kids can be cruel, good luck hun.

oyu can break your hymen in more then on eway but whatevea

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