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[x][edit] - Since being on Advicenators there have been a lot of repetitive questions and innane ones at that. Because of this, I will not be answering as many questions as I had before. To put it simply, some people need to think for themselves. To learn things in life we have to fall down from our hardships, learn from them, and get to our feet again. People aren't just going to spoonfeed you on how to live your life.
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hey guys. i can never seem to get a bf. like i have a lot of guy FRIENDS. just FRIENDS. im always the friend, never the girl. i cant FLIRT! can anyone give me some flirting ways/tips/techniques? i love anyone who helps!!
i just cant open up so easy to guys i like and then when i do its like hey your funny and im like.. eh heh.. yeah just funny! it never turns into something more. last year (6th grade) i got a TON of guys! but this year im more friendly and brave and open.. ugh
anonymous -
You don't need to flirt to get a guy. Decent guys go for the friendly, nice girl, not the flirty trashy ones.
From what you said, you seem like a nice girl. You don't need to put in any extra effort into making a guy notice you. Depending on what kind of a relationship you want, really depends on how you should behave. If you want dates, but not a boyfriend, go ahead and flirt, but don't overdo it. Smile sweetly, joke around a lot, etc. or you can even ask a friend to hook you up on a double date. If you're looking for a committed relationship, continue doing what you're doing because to be committed, you have to find a guy who likes you for you, not who you're trying to be.
Good luck.
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thnx!
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