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Ok, well me and my boyfriend broke up last night. I'm actually kind of happy, cause now I can see what a jerk he was, but here's what happened: I'm kind of upset over something that's happening at my house and only my best friend and my mom knows, and he kept on going, what's wrong? please tell me. And I told him I wasn't ready to tell him, and he wouldn't stop bothering me about it, and started saying things like, you won't tell your bf a damn thing and that I was pissing him off. So we just broke up. I really felt like he was pressuring me and I didn't want to tell him. And another thing, when we were going out, he would always say he loved me, and I would think that he didn't, because first off, we were online bf/gf, but he only lives an 1 away and we were gonna meet at the movies real soon, but like, how can he love me when we've never even met? And second, we only went out for a month, and I remember him saying that the first day we went out and I totally think he was abusing it. My question is, was he being a jerk and broke up with me for no reason, or should I have told him "just cause we're going out"? And what do you think about him saying I love you. Because I think that if he did, he would have given me the time and waited until I was ready to tell him. And today, I got online and he had "TASHA" with a winky face next to it. Well, he sure has moved on. What do you think about it? Thanks, I'll rate if good.
x3 Erin

He is a jerl amd i hate guys who say i love you with no emotion you were right to not tell him if you 2 didnt see much of eachotehr then you shouldnt have to tell him anything he should have respected that and know that when you are ready you would tell him. Move on cause its obvious he already has... Be happy that he doesnt like you anymore who wants jerks like that saying they love you i bet you would rather a decent guy who only says it when they mean it!

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(Rating: 5) thank you, that's exactly what I was feeling
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