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WILL RATE HIGH my ex boyfriend is really worrying me. i broke up with him because he started to make me think that all he wanted from me was sex. im 14 hes 15. he was asking me if was a virgin (which i am), if i would leave him a sexy message on his messge maching, and he wasnt actualy talkin to me on the fone, it was all thr txt msgs.when i tried to talk to him he wouldnt pic up. and i cant stand relatiotships where there is no communication and he knew that was important to me. i went out with him once before and he broke up with me "because he thought i didnt like him" which didnt make much sense because i always made the first moves, he seemes like a whole different person now. anyway, i knew he drank occasionally and what i thoguht used to do some drugs. but i dont know, he says he has an anger problem and that he's going to get homeschooled. i think that would be worse for him. i know he has problems at home, but his parents are still marrried. he hurts himself, like he beats himself up and i dont understand. i dont think its anger problems i think he nees counsoling. i still care about him and i dont want him to do this to himself. i dont know what i should do...i dont want him to hurt himself
Okay well your talking to the main self abuser ive done Anorexia and cutting and i know the reasons for doing it. He is insecure i think. It shows by him teling you he thought you didnt like him and the fact that he beats himself up that just shows that right now hes not happy with himself. The whole virginity thing well he probably just feels that your very attractive and that you having sex with him would make him feel sexy because a girl finds him attractive. All this is just his deeper need to feel needed make sure hes feeling supportive by you. Just be sweet and show him that you love him. tell him taht although you love him doesnt mean having sex it means making him know you love him.
(Rating: 5) thnx u helped me alot