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Q: My boyfriend's mom is so controlling! She tells him what to do all the time, and the worst part is, he does it! For example, she told him to wear something even though it didn't match at all, yet he ended up wearing it cause she told him to! It drives me completely crazy! He does stuff like that all the time for her! I really want him to stand up for himself, but he says he has to do what she says because she pays for everything for him. And another bad part to this problem is that he's 23, we've been dating for 2 years, and he's about to graduate college! I want to confront him, but I don't want him to get angry with me for it. How should I go about it?
Dump him. If he's dependent on her, he'll be dependent on you. It's sad, but you really can't deal with a guy like that and you don't deserve that. My cousin is going to end up the same as your boyfriend...it's really a pity...but you're better off without him. Find someone who can take care of himself.

Thanks, but easier said than done.

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