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If there is one thing that I do well, it is give advice, and care about people. I just named two things instead of one, but I really think they go hand-in-hand.
I am blunt and honest, but also considerate, polite, and courteous. I have a LOT of life experience to draw from, and I spend a little too much time looking back in retrospect to see what I did right and wrong in certain situations.

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Im actually starting to hang out with the people ive wanted to for about two years. I talk to them online and at school. They have a group of 4 people and if I join, it would feel weird becasue it seems to me like i would be brakng into their group when they might not want anymore friends in it. Im best friends with someone who is close with them and the only time i hang out with their group is when that best friend of mine asks us all to. I want to plan something on my own and i have talked to one of the girls about it she said it would be fun but how do i know if she says that to everyone who asks her to do something. Should i go for something that i dont know would work out but truley really want it to, or is their no point in even trying? How do I let the person know that i want to be in their group with out actually saying those exact words?

I really think you have the right idea with planning something of your own and inviting the group of friends. The chances that it wouldn't work out are very slim, and if you don't try it, you might always wonder how it would have gone if you had.
Show that you want to be a part of them through actions, not words. Inviting them to do things, talking online and in person, etc, will surely work you into their friendship. Let them know that you enjoy their company, they will most likely say the same for you.

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