Miss Desiree lives in Ohio, with her husband, two sons, mother, and for dogs. She has been a published author, and has extensive experience with special needs children and couples therapy.
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Age: 38
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Thanks everyone for your advice but there's another problem. Many of you said that I'll go to him since he is shy. What if he rejects me? or what will i say to him once we are facing each other? Pls. help me. I rate 5's. (link)
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No one likes to be rejected. It's a horrible feeling. Unfortunately we all feel that way once in a while.
If your not quite ready to take that chance, here are a few tips to get the ball rolling with minimal risk.
1. Treat him like a friend. Chat with him about mutual intrests and friends, ask his opinion on things. Do the things you would do with a friend, instead of treating him like a potential boyfriend.
2. Be yourself. You don't want him falling for some fake persona. Then your stuck acting like some one your not!
3. Don't be afraid to let things develope slowly. It sounds like you both are shy, so why add more pressure?
4. If you really feel like you can't wait to ask him out, the get it over with. Waiting will only make it scarier for you.
5. Think about exactly what you want to say, run it by a friend, or us here at Advicenators, and get some feedback. And think about how it would sound to you if he were the one saying it.
The bottom line: He's probably more nervous than you are. And rejection isn't the end of the world. Ask him out, either way you'll know and be able to stop worrying!
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