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my best friend and i have always stuck 2gether, but lately she found this other friend who she keep on hanging out with...i know that you are allowed to have more than one close friend, but i kinda feel hurt that she rather hang out with that girl then me. She has been totally ditching me lately. she acts like i am her best friend when the other girl isn't aroung though, but not the same as she used to...please don't tell me to forget about her because i just can't...please help...
thanx a bunch!

Aright, this is an easy one.. just talk to your friend about what is going on and tell her how you feel. Don't make it seem like your mad or anything, just hurt that she'd rather hang out with this other girl now more than you. If she's your best friend, then she should be able to listen to what you are saying and be able to talk to you about what is going on. Don't get too upset about this though... It may just be that she just needs a little space from you, and in that case, don't sweat it. People need breaks from other people all the time when they're close, and its perfectly normal.

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(Rating: 3) good advice, but i guess i am in denial, i don't really want space-she's my bffl! (or t least i thought so)
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