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All my friends have had a boyfriend before except me. I really want one, but there is no one that seems right for me. A few guys have asked me out, but i have refused. I am more obsessed with school than guys, but sometimes i wonder if i should spend more time trying to get a boyfriend. I also find that most boys i was attracted to had been my friends. I am not sure why that is. Maybe because i knew them so well?
~Wondering
Dear Wondering,
Get one of your friends to set you up with a guy you don't know too well. Not because it will make you popular or because it is the in thing to do. Not even because you "need" to be in a relationship or anything silly like that. Instead do it because it's good for you. It's good for you to make new friends, it's good for you to have someone to confide in, and it's good to have the experience son that your lack of experience does not become something traumatic to you. If practice makes perfect in all other things in life, why not here? If you are smart about it it shouldn't hurt anything and I do think that you sound like you will be smart about it. So do it, enjoy it, and don't think too hard about it. Just enjoy your youth and the experience and if nothing else it will be a fond memory years from now.
I don't think I need to tell you not to be free with you use of the word "love" and not to say or do anything unless you mean it, but there I've gone and said it anyway.
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Thanks for the help!
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