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If it matters, I'm seventeen, and a girl.
Okay, so I've been really close with this friend of mine for about two years. Then all of a sudden, she decided she was too good for me. She dwells in every issue she has until she makes herself depressed. She's getting all "emo", for another thing, and pushing EVERYONE away, except our mutual friend, who happens to be a guy.
Now, she even admitted to him that she had a crush on him for awhile, but she "got over it". Somehow, I don't think she did. We're in a choral group and she always manages to position herself next to him, which bothers me - not because I like him - because I'm used to hearing his part in my ear. I'm used to listening to him. We always used to practice together for concerts, we sit next to each other in choir because we blend, and all that.
Anyway, so the main issue I have is, what do I say to her, if anything? She suddenly decided she was too good for everyone except one guy - oh, and her "college friends" which are her only "real" friends. Most of my friends are in college, and I still don't act like that.
I almost want to confront her about her pompous attitude, and about her supposed crush on our friend, but it would make everything awkward, I know.
What would you all do in this situation? I'm just curious.
I rate ones for stupidity and fours for bad grammar and spelling. =)
Thank ya for your opinions.

Well... I think its always best to talk to someone about what's going on. First off you should talk to her about how you have been noticing her acting different and how you have noticed her pushing people who care about her away. You should try to understand what is wrong with her because maybe something is bothering her that you aren't aware of. Who know's maybe all she really needs is someone to feel sympathy for her and make her feel like she's wanted. Maybe that's why she's acting like she likes this guy. She sees you with him and decides that she wants the attention with him that you have. She's probably just jealous. Also she probably dwells on everything because she doesn't feel as important to anyone and it just makes her depressed... I hope I was of some help
~*ash

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(Rating: 5) Interesting, didn't think of that.
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