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One of my best friends has been dateing this guy for a year. we are both 14. well i have always thought this guy wasnt good for her, i mean he has kicked her, black mailed her, and even sent threats. the threats were jokes, but they wee serious at the time. like there was one rape one. well lately she has been ignoring me for him. it is true that he hasnt been so bad lately and it seems like her does love her, but i still cant take it. it doesnt seem fair that i have always TRIED to be with her, and he hasnt and she takes the side of him. what should i do? should i tell her? should i just let it slide?

The best thing to do is talk to her. Never let something that's bugging you "slide"... that could be the worst thing to do. Maybe its that she doesn't relise she's ignoring you at all, and she's probably not doing it on purpose. Tell her that your friendship means so much to you and some guy shouldn't ever get in the way. Don't make it seem like your mad at her, because that never helps anything. Try to be understanding but at the same time get out what you really want to say to her. She should be able to understand where you are comming from.
As me and my friends always say "Friends forever guys whatever." haha hope I helped,
~*ash

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