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There is a new girl in my school. She was recently expelled from her Catholic school because she got an abortion. One of my friends was friends with her for a while since they lived near eachother and now she's coming to my school. I have my opinions about alot of things and abortion I have a very strong opinion about it and I'll argue my point until my face is blue. I'm 1000% against unless you were raped or you are having difficulties with your pregnancy and it could cost you your own life. Just by knowing this, I already do not like her because of that reason and that reason only. My friends all know that if they were to get pregnant and get an abortion, I would probably never speak to them again. I am not a virgin, but I do know that if I was ever to get pregnant, I would never get an abortion reguardless of my situation. I just think it's wrong. But please, do not bash me because of my beliefs just answer me this, could you at the very least understand why I wouldn't want to be friends with her? Is it wrong for me to feel this way?
I have to agree with kiyya when she said "It is wrong, your telling me not to bash you for your opinion but look, your bashing this girl, she might not be happy about her desicsion, but you do not know what situation she was in ,and you don't know why she made that decicsion."
Do you know that she didn't use protection? Maybe the condom broke, because I don't understand how someone had sex and got an abortion as well...why not just use a condom? How do you know that it was her decision? Maybe she wanted that child and her parents wouldn't let her live at home if she had it. How did the school find out anyways?? Can you see where I am coming from?
Yet, I have to agree I think as well that Abortion is totally wrong on the case of..how would you feel if your mother got an abortion and didn't let you have you the life you have now? So on that point I have to agree.
Yet on the other hand everyone has their own veiw on things.
-need anything else feel free to drop one in-
EDITED-...u said that i didn't see the added info n ur right..i didnt because u added it 5 mins after i answered..
but when you said "could you at the very least understand why I wouldn't want to be friends with her?" you said you dont want to be friends with her..sorry but it sounds like your judging her
EDITED AGAIN-- but was it her choice to give up the child?
EDITED AGAIN-- ok then....what the hell was she thinking? now i see why you don't like her decision..and i have to agree with you on that...because what she did was plain pathetic
(Rating: 4) I wasn't bashing her. If you read my added information, you'd realize that. And the school found out about it because the girl that was her friend was the one that told me as well as everyone else that knows about her. And she did NOT use protection which is what she admited. **Just because I don't want to be friends with her because of what she did doesn't mean I'm judging her. Me saying that I don't want to be friends with her doesn't mean I'm going to be a bitch to her. I'm not like that. Just because I don't agree with something that you do, doesn't mean I'm automatically going to think whatever about you and hate you because of it. I don't hate her, I hate what she did.
EDIT- Yes it was her choice to give up the child. Her parent's didn't know about the abortion until she was expelled.