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I have the bestest friends in the world. but i cant help but feel left out sometimes. i know im just been stupid half the time but it really bugs me. I know that having 3 best friends will always be hard but its so awful been left out. Like they will sleep at each others house etc. I told my friends about this and my other friend said sorry i just feel more close to her than i do to you. and that just made me upset becuase i have known them both longer than they have known each other. So i dont know what to do, they will think im trying to split them up or something which im not! so what can i do because i have already told them but they just carry on. thanks
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I feel the same way, 2 of my friends I have known one since 2nd grade and one since like 6th grade..and they both became close and 1 said that she is comfrontable saying stuff to the other one then to me, they would go for bike rides, and to the movies and say that they called but my sister never told them... which I don't belive but yeah. Then recently I had the same thing with another 2 of my freinds who don't know each other they only talked on-line a few times, but the one I knew for a lil over a year got annoyed because I was telling the one I only knew for a few months more personal stuff, bc I knew he would be there for me when I need someone to actually talk to. I know how it feels being left out of a triangle, I also know how it feels when you know one feels like they are left out. (such like I knew my friend was getting annoyed bc I couldn't be as open to him the other one)...What I am going to say is sit down with both of them and talk about how you feel and maybe have a day with just the 3 of you to have fun like old times, I know it wasn't the best but if you need anything else feel free to drop on in.

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(Rating: 5) thanks your advice did help me alot. we had a chat and sorted it out. xxxx
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