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Tell me if I'm over-reacting, but...
My best friend Sara came over yestery, and we started watching a movie, Raise Your Voice. And, well, these guys call her. Background info about the guys, one of the guys and sara were supposed to go out but sara's best friend (now ex) stold him away from her, and the other, well they kicked it and he started standing her up, so things stopped. But yeah, they called her saying they were going to some park/lake nearby and they wanted her to go with. She knew I couldn't go, and then she called another friend and begged HER to go with. Then when she got off the phone she looked at me and was like, are you mad?e I said yeah maybe. Then she's like oh I'm such a bad friend... and calls the guys back saying come pick me up! Agg! Who does that? Thats the reason her last friendship, fell apart, her other friends ditched Sara and so she should know how it feels. This isn't the first time we foughta. We fight a lot. And today in the morning I didn't call her up for school like usual and she calls half hour later saying why didn't i call her to wake her up?and i said that i thought she'd be up already, and sjhe clicked. so then at the bus stop i didnt go anywhere nearher and then she came to me to give me my books back and take hers and said something ... then called me abithc. I dont know what to do, everyone likes her. SHe talks about everyone behind their back. Agggh it drives me insane because no one believes me! I will give you a 5 if you give me a good response. Thanks in advance! :=) (link)
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no. your not over-reacting. that so wasn't right of her. she was at your house hanging with you and bloew you off for some guys.. chicks before dicks.. so you have a right to be mad at her for that. maybe she didn't realize that she blew you off. maybe you should call her up and be like heyy is now a good time to talk? and just be like. the other day when you were over and you left.. it was like you were blowing me off. i know you know how that feels, and it doesn't feel good. i was just wondering, did you relize you hurt me? and then just take it from there. i think if you just talk to her, you 2 will connect, and start to understand eachother.. and hopefull that will never happen again
hope i helped
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