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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. I am 16 (sophomore) and he is 18 (senior). Recently we have been getting into stupid arguements because he seems to like arguing and always has to be right. I always give into him just because I don't want to fight anymore. He also never listens to me when I say "no" when he tries to touch me. We both lost our virginity to each other and sometimes I let him, but when I tell him not to, if im just not in the mood he, doesn't seem to understand that. We've talked about it numerous times and I've tried everything. Do you think this relationship can be saved? Because he means so much to me and I would hate more than anything to hurt him.
Thank you
-Confused

well....you said you didnt want want to hurt him...well hunny comone...look at all he has done to you. He doesnt respect what you want when it comes to sex....respect is one of the most important things in a relationship, and if he doesnt respect you, the relationship cant work. Dince he doesnt respect you..hes hurting you. Dumping him might hurt him, but by the way hes acting..he doesnt deserve you. If you have talked about it, and nothing as changed..i dont see how it ever will. As it comes to you religions...its very good its so important to and i dont see why he wont talk to you more about his...i dunno of hes hiding something, im not familiar with the baptist religion...but it looks like he just doesnt know enough about it. He should support your beliefs, and if he doesnt...once again, he doesnt deserve you. I hope i helped! Thanx for asking just me, it makes me feel good people want just my advice..it means something i said changed someone for the better :) If you have more questions just ask.

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(Rating: 5) thanks so much! it DID help!
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