Hey everyone! I haven't been active for few years but now I'm back, wiser than ever! So if you want my advice, let's make magi happen and fix this problem together.... or just, you know, take the advice.
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don't bother reading if you can't manage, but 5's to any singly word of response because i really really need some advice here...
i have this twin sister- we're both 14- and she is really immature and selfish and just a totally disgusting and impossible person. sometimes i love her, but alot of times i could just explode! she is just so hard to take!
the main problems with her are that she is really into herself but at the same time extremely insecure and self-consious...and the second is that she just can NOT get over things...like tonight she was trying to get me to remember something by repeating like the same vague amature description over and over and I was like, OK I DON'T REMEMBER CAN WE DROP IT OR CAN YOU GIVE ME A BETTER CLUE?!?!
See its little stuff like that, but I just want to rip my brains our and throw them at her face!!!!!!!!!!! I HATE sharing things with her when I just don't really like her as a person...and she really harms me as a person, because I spend so much energy being infuriated at her or trying to ignore her pesty existence.
I really feel like we are the only people in this world that each other has, so we need to get along...but I just cannot tolerate her at ALL! Its like her brain is so many pages behind, and I can't stretch to reach her and make her stupid accomodations.
Is there any way I can coexist with her as a step towards actually liking her? There are some people in this world that I just cannot ever like, and that's okay, but I really don't want her to be one of them...and how can I vent my feelings in a healthy way? lol i've been sitting in my room screaming (literally) for the past 20 minutes...ew and I wouldn't do anything to hurt anyone so don't go there....
snaps to you for reading this!
xox and SOS (link)
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Well, first thing I'd like to tell you, this is a REALLY long thing. Next time, sum it up for all of us...
Okay, on to work...
First off, you must talk with your sister, in peace. Or talk to your parents about it. Have you ever tried that? I mean, my sister and I are complete opposites as well; mentally and physically. The only thing we have in common is our psychological part, which isn't very much.
All sisters have problems, whether you like it or not. I know, and you know, that we both have to love our sisters, whether we like it or not, since that's the Law. No, I kid. But we do love them. There is no way on earth, that someone must truely, purely hate their family members. It's just so hard. The biggest thing you can do for now is just talk it out. But it's just a phase that we sisters all go through, once in a while. I'm sure you've felt similar way at her, when you were small. You just have to understand that she's your sister, and you love her, right? She loves you back, and who knows? Maybe she feels the same way about you, as you do to her? You guys MUST talk this thing out. Whether you need your paresnts or someone to be controling it. Talking it out is the only solution. Violence is the solution to stupid problems, and Suicide is the premanent solution, to a temporary problem. It's a fact...
Take Care,
~SAM
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thanks...except for the suicidal bit...maybe im not the one who needs help
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