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Q: I've got an issue that i really need someone to help me with.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months tommrow and I'm going to lose him very soon if I keep up my issue. Whenever I get the slightest bit upset, I get very close to breaking up with him. I few times I actutally did, but he took me back withen seconds. I don't know why I do this, it's really confusing me because I promised myself and him I'd stop. The first time I did this he cried. Yes I know, a guy crying "He must be a pansy", he's not he's affectionate, but just the other week when I did this he just said "Do what you want" and didn't care, at all. I've done this alot and he's begun not to care that I do this anymore because I think he realizes I'm not actually going to follow through with it, but someday I will. I don't want to break up with him, but I get in this tunnel-vison mode where the only way out is out of the relationship. Any advice on why I do this and how to stop.
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Been there. What you need to do is realize BEFORE you break up with him, how much you will be hurting the both of you. You will both miss each other. Just whenever you feel yourself about to break up with him, think about how you'll regret it. After a while, he's going to get sick of all this drama and might not take you back. So just be very careful what you do! xO ali *and good luck!
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That was everything I needed and more
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