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ok, my mum stopped smoking for a good few years now and i was so proud of her but now she's started again because shes under so much pressure (she does an art course at college) it also puts pressure on me and she says she understands that but its something she wants to do and i support that. She said that she will stop smoking at the summer and i was fine with that but ive not to tell anyone thats shes smoking again, but now shes smoking all the time and i feel sick around her but i CANT tell her that. SOMEONE HELP ME PLEASE!!!! SORRY ITS LONG BUT I RATE VERY HIGH (link)
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Why do you support her smoking? I mean, there's nothing you can really do about it because it's her decision, but you shouldn't support her hurting herself. Maybe you could suggest other things to do instead of smoking when she is stressed, like doing yoga or punching pillows or something. If you really don't care her smoking until summer (when she might not even quit because it's really hard) then you still have to do something. Not only is SHE getting worse from doing it all the time, but so are YOU. You could die even before she does from second-hand smoke. Tell her this somehow, because if she cares about you, she will take her smoking elsewhere. if you can't talk to her in person, try writing her a letter or printing stuff from the internet with stories and facts about second-hand smoke, and leave it where she can find them. If this doesn't work, then walk away from her when she pulls out a cigarette. Hope I helped!
~Meags
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