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So, I'm a sixteen year old girl, and I live in Ontario, Canada. I LOVE giving out advice. All my friends come to me for advice because:
-I tell them the whole truth and nothing but the truth.
-I don't sugarcoat things. If your relationship is doomed, I'll tell you. I won't say "just talk to him" or stuff like that.
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-I'm just a normal person, and I probably go through the same everyday crap that the rest of you go through.
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okay this question is for my friend who can't ask it so i am doing it for her. well her best friend just recently died at age 12. and she wants to go to her funeral and wants me to go with her but her mom won't let her go because its during school and she thinks she will get all emotional but she really wants to go so she can say bye and she wants me to go with her so she has a shoulder to cry on if she needs one. does anyone know how she can get her mom to change her mind and let her go to her best friends funeral? please help.

It seems to me that your friends mother never lost a best friend.
Her mother needs to realize that if she doesn't go, it might cause many more emotional problems down the road, and it will be even harder to deal with more deaths as she gets older.


Try to get a school counsellor to write a note to her mother, advising that your friend goes to this funeral. If your friends only around the age of 12, missing one day of school isn't that bad. At that age, school isn't nearly as important as something as a funeral.

I'm sorry for her loss.

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(Rating: 5) well now it's too late for her to go because she got offline last night and didn't get back on and neither did i. thanks for this advice though. i'm sure that it would have worked had she been able to talk to her mom. ♥haleigh
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