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Hi, Advicenators. Normally I make up my own mind, but I need a little help. If you're going to be sarcastic or rude, don't bother.
Gender: female
Grade: Eighth
I have a problem with my Sunday School teacher. You see, I honestly believe that I have more Biblical knowledge than her. I know that sounds conceited.. but it just seems like it! Yesterday (Easter Sunday) our "lesson" was on miracles. This is what the conversation was like:
Teacher:Who can preform miracles?
Teacher:Only Jesus can preform miracles! No one else can!
Me:*raises hand*
Teacher:yes?
Me:But Jesus isn't the only one who can preform miracles.. Paul, Elija, Elisha, the Devil, the Twelve Disciples.. they all preformed miracles..
Teacher:No, no, no. That's not what I said..
Me:You said "Only Jesus can preform miracles".
Teacher:Anyway, girls, as you see.. blah, blah, blah.
At this time, I'm feeling pretty screwed over since she just blew me off. All of that conversation is an exact quote. This was the third time that I was able to correct her (and the third time I got blown off) yesterday alone! It happens every Sunday.. she doesn't know the lesson, she doesn't know what she's talking about.. It makes me mad!
I know that I am much, much more mature Spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and in my knowledge of the Bible and Christ.. (not trying to sound conceited..) but the lessons are never fufilling! I could gather more from my eight-year old sister's Sunday School lesson. Get this: I was the only girl in my class of seventh and eighth grade girls that knew what the Rapture was! Oh my gosh! How dumb?!
So, I was considering talking to my youth pastor about this. I'm naturally shy, and I don't like to put myself in that position.. but this is so annoying.. and a waste of my Sunday morning! So.. do you think I should speak to my youth pastor about this?
PS - I don't really get along with my teacher, I'm nice to her... but we don't get along. :\
PPS - Sorry it's so long! Thanks in advance..

Maybe it's not just the fact that you know more than her. Maybe it's a "superiority complex" or something. She's a teacher, therefore one must assume that she knows more than her students. And whenever she is challenged, she either ignores it or fights back (if she ignores it, she's too afraid to loose the battle...). Trust me, this probably won't be the only time that you're in this scenario. YOU as a person have to pick your own battles, even if you KNOW that you're right. Knowing things and being smart is great, but knowing when to bite your tounge is even better. In conclusion, yes, talk to your youth pastor, but only ONCE. If it doesn't work, then hold your tounge. Practice the faith alone or just help your peers (because maybe they feel the same way...)

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(Rating: 4) the thing is.. I'm almost afraid to talk to ANYONE, because I'm an outcast. (not 'cause of personality or stuff... cause I'm homeschooled. How screwed up is this?)

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