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im 16 and had a baby 3 months ago today.my mum and dad are strict catholics and demanded that me and my baby)s father to get married.well me and the babys father split. so my mum and dad were like "i told u so". i left home and moved into a council flat.i have got exams this yaer and im finding it so hard.even tho i have paid childcare thoughtout the day im so tired to do anything.my mum said that i had her and so shes my responsability.im getting desperate now and even thought about adoption.has anyone got any good advica on how to cope. the last thing i want to do is say to my mum that she was right.sorry its long.

i read some of the advice given to you and most of it was good saying that you should go to your mom and talk to her tell her that your sorry and that you need her help, like someone else said your her responsibility and she just cant leave you either, do NOT pu your baby up for adoption, a baby needs its mother, and if you want your baby to not be in this mess when he/she is older then it will be more likely for him/her not to be if you keep them. love your baby, thats what it and you need.

for school, study study study and relax take a break or a vacation do something for yourself once in a while

talk to your ex, even if he dosent want to marry you its his problem to and he needs to help you out when you need help

and as for the advice that someone gave you his name was shaken i believe, ignore it TOTALLY IGNORE THAT PERSONS ADVICE.your child is your blessing even if you dont feel like that now,and what they said totally made me feel like crying it was so cruel, you didnt mess you life up like they said and if you work your hardest you will probably be better off in the end than they will,

its whats right and what you know is right

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(Rating: 5) thanx very much!xxx
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