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So, I'm a sixteen year old girl, and I live in Ontario, Canada. I LOVE giving out advice. All my friends come to me for advice because:
-I tell them the whole truth and nothing but the truth.
-I don't sugarcoat things. If your relationship is doomed, I'll tell you. I won't say "just talk to him" or stuff like that.
-I don't judge. Well, I do judge a little bit, but who doesn't. But, you can tell me you just had sex with 309573458346934584357 different people, and I'll still love you none the less.
-I'm just a normal person, and I probably go through the same everyday crap that the rest of you go through.
So yeah, feel free to drop me a line. As far as I know, I've never screwed someone over with my advice!

advice

ok here it goes, sorry if its a little long. but i really need your help.

ok my friend well she went out with this guy, and she used to be like a good friend of mine, she used to say that like we are best friends and all, but really she was never my best friend.
so now her boyfriend broke up with her, but she sill loves him, and she said that she cant get over him, and that hes the only guy she can ever go back out with. now that guy told me that he likes me, i mean i dont know for sure but it really sound like it, cuz ok he told me he likes me and he always tells me " i love you" and i went to the movies, and he was there and he asked me to sit by him and he putted his arm around me and he kept telling me that he loves me and sutff like that, and he was askin me if i love him! he kissed me on the cheek. so than i called him like 2 days later, and he asked me who i liked and i kept asking him who he likes and he didnt want to answer until i did, so i didnt asnwer so by the end he asnwered and said that he likes me, and i said that i like him, and i think he was serious about it, because i told him to be serious. and i said well what do you want do about it? and he said if i asked you out would you back off on me for your friend? the girl he went out with! and i said i dont know. and i was like so wat do you want to do? and he said he has to think about it. now my other friends keep telling me that i like him, and they cant know that because i dont want my friend to know that i like her ex. and now she asked me if i liked him and i said "no" cuz she still likes him a lot! but i do, and i dont know does he like me to? and what should i do? its really annoying this whole thing.
SORRY ITS SO LONG.
but i really need help on this. thanks. i'll rate 5's.

Well, there's 2 options.

-Disregard your friends feelings, and take the chance. Why should you miss out on life because she can't move on?

OR

-Tell him you wish you could, but you cant because of her. Friendship is greater than a guy.

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(Rating: 5) ight thx. ill think bout it
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