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Am a bit of a wrinkly now (i was 24 on 4/9/05, but I had the best birthday I've ever had in my whole entire life!!!) but I know an awful of stuff about an awful lot of stuff!

I am COMPLETELY NON-JUDGEMENTAL and you can always inbox me with stuff you wouldn't ask anyone else @ MelanieHarvey81@Hotmail.Com

Mel xxx


"Dance like no one is watching and love like you've never been hurt"

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hello all,
I am the ten year (idiot)well thats what I call myself! since all of your advice I have found myself sleeping with him again and feeling like things will get better, I have not moved back in with him becaise I litiraly cannot afford it, and that would make everything even worse!!!but I have been off work as im sure you can imagine I need time to think, But is it not strange that every night I cant get hold of him?? i know he is with another woman am I just thick???
Today is different I am going to stay away from him because I know he is a liar and a cheat I cannot afford to be dragged back in , how the hell do i keep strong and sane in the process????

23 london, going insane ! female (link)
Sounds like you are in the same boat as me!
I am 23 too.
Still in love with your ex - can't seem to break away and say that final goodbye!
Every song you hear applies in someway to your relationship.
You find yourself thinking about him all the time.
You still talk about him all the time and you would love nothing more than to be with him and have a perfect relationship.
You still speak/see him all the time?

Sound familiar! Thought so.

You probably aren't going to like what I say but hey this is my advice to you!

Break ALL contact. Change your mobile number, e-mail address etc etc and everytime you think about him replace the thought of him with a thought of someone else close to you.

If you can't get hold of him at night then I hate to say it but he is probably with another woman, you just don't want to see it. (I've been there!)

Just keep your head up and stay strong by knowing that if he can treat you like that then he is not good enough for you and he WILL regret it! Especially when you find someone who truly loves you and end up happy with them.

If you need a chat inbox me or e-Mail me at MelanieHarvey81@hotmail.com

Take care!

Melanie


Rating: 5
mel that was great , i have sent you an email as you sound like you know what your talking about it's just so amazing that someone else understands exactly , thank you!




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