My name is Melanie, and I'm 14 years old. I live in MA. I love to play soccer, and have been playing since I was little. I like to play other sports as well. I love hanging out with my friends, of course.
Lately I've been going through a lot of crap so I wanted to make one of these, so I could help other people if they needed it. Some people may not like my advice, but I can't please everyone. I'll try to help you as much as I can. If you'd like to talk to me on IM for some reason, my s/n is lostxinside87. My e-mail is SoccerChick62591@aol.com if you want to e-mail me, if you do, make sure you put advice in the subject, otherwise it will be deleted.
P.S feedback is always welcomed =). And thanks for those of you who give me awesome feedback, it's greatly appreciated, and I'm glad I helped!
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The boy I have a crush on has been leaving me out of everything and likes someone else. One of my best friends is ignoring and avoiding me because another one of my "so called" friends told him I liked him. I look like a nerd, my grades are going down, and I've been down lately. To make it short, I hate my life. Its miserable right now. What do I do to cheer myself up or solve one or more of my problems??
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There's plenty of stuff you can do! Try talking to someone about your problems. Whether it be your mom, a close friend, a teacher, someone you trust. Sometimes bottling stuff up can make things worse. If you're always sad, you might want to talk to your mom about going to a counselor.
You seem young. There'll be plenty of oppurtunities to meet good guys, try letting him go. Try looking at all the bad things about him, saying to yourself why do I like him?
In your life, try looking at the positive things. Maybe you could joing a sports team, or drama or something at your school. Sometimes those things can get your mind off things. Or maybe you cou could try getting together with your friends more often.
About your grades, you can get them back up! Just start studying harder, and try putting more effort into your work. Everyones grades eventually drop at one point because of one thing or another. You seem like you're really smart, and I think it'll be no problem getting them back up!
Hope I helped!
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thank you so much you're the best :)
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