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Hi! I'm Linda. I would love to try to help you with advice about love and life. I can also try to help with Health: Mental issues in particular.

However, you can ask me anything. I believe in the value of honesty and I will do my best to be ethical, fair and genuine. xoxoxoxo

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I was just wondering, is it possible for a guy to be too shy to IM you? becuase i have imed ths one guy i like about like 4 times in total but like over a span of about 2 months but..i'm just thikning is the reason he hasn't imed me first because he is shy or that he just doesn't feel that way about me? help please..thanks

Dear shy,
Now there's a handy excuse. Being too shy. However, I'm thinking he probably knows that you will IM him first. Unsure of whether or not he doesn't feel that way about you, but I can give you a few tips. First, if you "see" him on the computer, don't IM him first. Let him do it. And if he doesn't, please don't worry about it. You just want to put a question mark in his head. If he does eventually IM you, be friendly, keep it short and be the first one to go. Hopefully, it will leave him wanting more. When you see him, big smile, wave a little and keep on walking. You want him to know you like him but also that you can live with him or without him. That you're independent and confident in yourself. If he's interested, he will definitely throw out a few more hints.
Good luck!
Linda

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(Rating: 5) wow that was AWESOME advice :) thanks
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