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Hi! I'm Linda. I would love to try to help you with advice about love and life. I can also try to help with Health: Mental issues in particular. However, you can ask me anything. I believe in the value of honesty and I will do my best to be ethical, fair and genuine. xoxoxoxo
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20/f
This guy I had a date with kissed me on the firt date. Is that werid? I have never kissed someone on the first date before. Do you think he just wants sex?
Dear 20/f,
Kissing on the first date is not so weird. It depends of course, who you are. By the way, did you kiss him back? It's really all about how you feel about the person. If you thought it was weird, you probably didn't learn enough about him for you to feel comfortable kissing him. It sounds like you have high morals and high standards. That is great! And please don't listen to people who tell you otherwise. A kiss, in itself, is not such a big deal. It means he likes you and wants to get to know you better. Whether or not he wants sex right away really depends on who he is.
Good luck and happy dating!
Linda
(Rating: 5) I think because guys in college are so sex-minded that maybe he didint really like me and just wante to get into my pants or something. I kind of kissed him back. I was just really caught off gaurd because a guy has never just sprung a kiss on me like that. I mean yes I have just had random hookups but not like going on a date and then him kissing. I guess it's just that I want something a little more seriosu and I just don't want to be played into the same routine of them being all sweet and then just wanting a booty call. thanks for the advice though. Your anawer was really sweet:)