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Hi! I'm Linda. I would love to try to help you with advice about love and life. I can also try to help with Health: Mental issues in particular. However, you can ask me anything. I believe in the value of honesty and I will do my best to be ethical, fair and genuine. xoxoxoxo
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well see ..i was goin out with this kid (eric) for like 4 months and yeah we had sex.. but then like .. i dont know we got in some kinda fight ish thing .. and then like .. i kissed this kid Jimmy and ended up liking him ..so i broke up with Eric cuz i felt wicked mean .. cuz i cheated on him and then i liked Jimmy so i dumped eric .. and now my bestfriend is goin out with him .. ( im goin out with Jimmy and she started goin out with Eric a week later) and Eric made out with my cuzin 2 days later,and then went out with her and then broke up with her and told me that he was like still in love with me and then went out with my Bestfriend.. i mean is it alright to be kinda mad about this or is it like .. wicked bitchy and stupid to be ?
please help =/
p.s i rate..
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Dear uhh,
Wow. You have some drama goin on there. I have to get it straight first.
You were going out with Eric.
Got into a fight.
Kissed Jimmy.
Broke up with Eric.
Started going out with Jimmy.
Best friend starts going out with Eric.
Eric makes out with your cousin.
He goes out with your cousin.
Broke up with cousin.
Tells you he loves you.
Starts going out again with your best friend?
Did I get that right?
And now you're upset with Eric. First of all, feelings are not wrong. They just are. And I think your feelings are valid. However, I think he's kind of got his hands full right now. It sounds as if he's very fickle and goes from one girl to the next. I wouldn't do anything on impulse right now no matter what Eric is saying to you. I think he still may have feelings for you, but THAT is NOT love. Trust me on this.
Also, about the sex issue. When a girl has sex, that level of intimacy really tends to cloud the vision a bit. Pull back a little from Eric so you can see him a little more clearly. I don't think you're being bitchy nor do I think your feelings are stupid. You were hurt. And you have every right to be, just as he had a right to be hurt about you and Jimmy. And you know, he could be trying to reel you back in. But like I said before, before making any impulsive decisions, really THINK about it first.
Good luck!
Linda
(Rating: 5) well ..see he made out with my cuzin 2 days after me n him broke up then went out with her and then dumped her and went to my bestfriend like 3 days later.. butyeah you helped thanx=D