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Hi! I'm Linda. I would love to try to help you with advice about love and life. I can also try to help with Health: Mental issues in particular. However, you can ask me anything. I believe in the value of honesty and I will do my best to be ethical, fair and genuine. xoxoxoxo
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My best friend dated my ex. It was a tough thing for me to see.They are totally over and you would think everything is fine. Wrong. I still like him. At least I think I still like him. I even have a boyfriend who I love very much. But then I read a note from my ex that was about me that was to my best friend when they were together, and now I feel sad. He liked her a lot. And I feel like a bitch. I need to know what is going on! HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!
Hi! There's a lot going on here. The one thing that is really shouting out in your letter is....guilt. Okay, what did you do? You say you feel like a bitch, however, there's nothing that you wrote that would make you into a bitch. So, I'm reading between the lines here. First, you have a boyfriend whom you love very much. And you still feel like you like your ex. Perfectly normal. He's free again. You have history between you. You read a letter showing how much he cared for your best friend. What, my dear, are you leaving out???
Linda
(Rating: 4) What i am leaving out is kinda simple. He wrote that he didn't like me. BUt then talks about me in ways that he only said when we were together.