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Hi! I'm Linda. I would love to try to help you with advice about love and life. I can also try to help with Health: Mental issues in particular. However, you can ask me anything. I believe in the value of honesty and I will do my best to be ethical, fair and genuine. xoxoxoxo
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ok well you see i have mayjor problems because im in love with this kid who i cant be and well yeah were cool and all and he flirts but hes a ladies man you know and i love him so much and well i dont want to say anything b/c i dont know how he feels but please help me should i follow my heart and let my family and others hate me for a guy that may not even be interested and if he is what happens if we dont stay together i mean im willing to give my virginty help im in over my head please answer asap
Dear disowned,
Why do you say that your family would hate you? What is this guy like? It sounds as if you haven't really spoken to him all that much, so I think you're "in love" with your idea of this guy. Is he a little rebellious? Does he smoke maybe? Go after the girls? I think you may be judging your family a little harshly. Probably every single one of them has been in the situation that you're in now. But you are questioning things which means that you are aware that there could be some problems with this guy. Before declaring your love to him, talk with him a little more so you can know him a little better. And don't pin all your expectations on whether he likes you or not. Your job is to find out if HE is good enough for YOU.
As for your virginity, I wouldn't even go there yet. You don't know him. You don't know his character well enough to decide whether he would be a good steward of the trust you would place in him. Test him out first. Don't let him test you out.
Good luck sweetie.
Linda
(Rating: 5) thanks for the advice and i know him well enough to guve my heart to him and hes fine its just a world full of difference love sweet apples