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Ok i always have a tough time talking to guyz i like.. i always get so shy and locked up... and the thing is i get all shaky and nervas. It's so emaressing! I no they probably feel the same way but it seems so hard... what should i do?

Well... See, it is completely natural to feel that way. Especially as a young girl (assuming you are a young female.) I felt the same way, as I am sure all people do when talking to someone of the opposite sex. My advice to you, and the thing that helped me was that I got a best friend that just happened to be a guy. It made it easier to understand guys, which made it easier to talk to them. You may want to try to make small talk with a guy that you really like. As you get more comfortable with speaking to them, talk a little more, and more. At first, have no intentions of becoming their girlfriend, just worry about becoming their friend. Just remember, their is no reason to be nervous, and that they are most likely as nervous around you as you are around them.

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