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Location: LA
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Age: 16
Member Since: February 20, 2005
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Ok so there's this guys Shawn, and he doesn't live here. We have been off and on since the summer, and i'm so insecure about the relationship because all the other guys i've been with have been pricks. I never see him so i dont consider it a relationship..and i can't just be friends with him because i have stronge feelings for him, and it's not going to work ever again. But it hurt's so much when i see him sign on or talk or think about him. He was the first real guy that accepted my eating disorder and my cutting habbits. I need to get over him because i don't wanna feel this weay anymore. But everytime i try it feel's as if i can't feel the same way with another guy. I'm thinking of deleting his s.n and getting ride of anything that has to do with him..taking him out of the picture completley. (Because if he really loves me then he'll be there later in life, right?) What do you think?
You love him, he loves you - get over it theres plenty more where that came from. Simple as that. In my opinion you should never go back for seconds, if your relationship doesn't work the first time and you cant work through your problems its a waste of time for both of you. Don't cut your friends out of your life, unless they are a danger to you or themselves; thats mean and childish, and will be the cause of you ending up as an old woman with way too many cats, and no friend a'tall. Selfish selfish selfish.
Hey babe, you asked for advice, I gave it. You don't like it you don't have to follow it. It's not a command its ADVICE. And "I'm thinking of deleting his s.n and getting ride of anything that has to do with him..taking him out of the picture completley." That means you want to cut him out of your life entirely. Duh. Think about what you say before you say it. Oh wait I'm sorry, you are typing so read what you are typing because it only makes you three times as stupid to type something entirely different from what you mean.
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I can tell youve never felt this way before, and thats why its so simple for you to say get over it -- Not true relationships do work the second time, people hit bumps everyone deals with emotions differentley -- I didnt cut my friends out of my life never will never have cause they come first
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