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5'10
130 lbs
16.5 yrs old
had my share of drugs/alcohol. and learned.
16+ piercings
1 tattoo
no regrets




"you know what i still dont get, why are you trying so hard to fit in when u were born to stand out"-What A Girl Wants


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He's hurting so much. My fiancee. He learned last September that the father he never met died three years earlier. We were only engaged for two months when he learned this. He is so distant now I can't even reach him on this subject. He doesn't talk about it. He is so different now. I ask him. he doesn't say. It is so strange now. We went from sharing everything to sharing some things. It's killing him and it's killing me. I don't want to be selfish but I need to be the one he turns to. He hasn't talked to anyone he says. Do I need to just back off or should I pursue him. I need to get him back to good.Please help.21/f

oh man. theres alot of different veiws, like you want to be there for him right, but you also wanna give him space?? he might be running from the problem, or maybe he hasnt accepted. try marraige consuling or w/e.

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(Rating: 4) Thanks a lot! I'll see if he wants to do counseling.
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