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ok heres the thing...i went out w/ this guy (we are both 13) and he broke up w/ me a week later because he said it felt akward because we were really good friends before that. ok so ever since then ive gone 3 places w/ him...the mall twice and the movies. ok at the mall the first time...he held my hand but we arent going out...ok at the movie he held my hand once then let go then put his arm round me and the held my hand again after that. ok and then tonight i went to the mall w/ him and some other guys and he held my hand again and started huggin me a lot but he tells everyone we are jus friends...does that make any sense? i mean he broke up w/ me and i didnt like him anymore but now i like him again because of all this but its gonna make me sad if he doesnt like me and i dont think he does but all mine and his friends say he does. how can i know why he keeps doing this?!?! sry its so long! ill rate good! thanx

well your only 13.. not to sound like im degrading you. this most likely isnt love. if it bothers you that he only wants to be your friend and hes holding your hand.. tell him to stop. tell him that you have no problem being his friend but when he does sweet things like hold your hand and puts his arm around you that it makes you feel like theres something more there and if thats not what he wants then you dont want him to do that because you dont want to feel like theres something else out there for you two.
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