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Q: Well, me and my friend have been friends like forever. WE are bestfriends and our families are extremly close. Well, she has tried braking the relationship every month and 3 or 4 times a month. I am sick of it!! And starting to get sick of her fighting. She can be oh so nice and OH SO mean. We only fight online because she doesn't want to fight in person. I think she might want the relationship to end but I really don't know. She says she will always come back to me every time we fight but sometime I think she won't. I really don't want to lose her but maybe the next time we fight this may be the end to our relationship. I need some advice with that. She used to say how I get all the guys, and how I am not pretty, and also how I copy her, and junk but like I don't understnad her. I have tried not telling her more close things so if we do lose the relationship she won't really have anything to say to anyone about my secrets. But Like I need help on what to do with her.....
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Don't take this the wrong way, but you really need to ask yourself, "Why do I want to be friends with someone who doesn't want to be my friend?" I think that by staying her friend, you are hurting yourself more. But don't end it with a fight. Just tell her that you think the two of you need to be apart for a while, hang out with other people (sounds like a typical girlfriend/boyfriend break up, huh?) and that you hope the best for her. Mention that you'll always care about her. And stay true to your word, don't obsess over her. Maybe someday you will be friends again, or maybe you will go your seperate ways for good. But it's normal for friendships to change like this, your worst enemy one year could be your best friend the next year and vice versa.
I hope it works out for you.
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Thanks for all your input and advice I hope it goes well also...!!
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bio
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Call me Molly. I'm seventeen, female, and I love shoujo anime. I'm also a Level 1 Moderator.
My categories:
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Or just general stuff. I'll try my best to answer anything.
Warning: I'm known to give sarcastic as hell answers. Sorry, I can't help it. If you have a question that I think is mind numbing and stupid, I'm going to be sarcastic. My hope is that you will realize that my negative opinion of you doesn't make you any less of a person, and you will apply this knowledge and grow up to be a well-adjusted, confident person. Rate me 1 if you wish, but please try not to take it too seriously when I do this.
IF YOU WANT TO MAKE ME HAPPY...all it takes is a comment when you rate me. I will smile a lot and like you more. Even if you call me a crossdressing stoner. =)
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Website: Gender: Female Location: Earth, silly Occupation: artist Age: 17 Member Since: February 28, 2005 Answers: 426 Last Update: June 18, 2005 Visitors: 24400
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