Q: ok look i kno this chick and we've been goin out for about 9 months and she wants to do stuff really bad and dont get me wrong i do too but i am not done with puberity and i am shy about it i dont kno what to do what do i do? what do i say? should i just go for it and see what happens or should i just wait?
P.S. we love each other VERY much!! :)
If you are not ready than don't do it. You don't ahve to do anything you don't want to. Just because everyone else is haveing sex doesn't mean you have to. Going through pubertiy is also a big deal too. Not to give too much detail but you will develop more down there. The peak of a man genital is when thy are 16 -18. So you might have a while til you actaully go through puberty. Then again I think if you guys really love each other and feel comfortable enough to have sex than go for it. Just please use protection...its an absolute must. Let me know what you decide.