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hay im adina and im a cheerleader at lewisville high school. i love giving advice so ask me anything!!

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People are always asking me about my love life, like people at school. I have had a boyfriend before but that only lasted a week, and I always feel uncomfortable saying 'oh I've only had one boyfriend' when people ask. I know it's not a race or a competition as to who can get the most boyfriends, but it's starting to bug me and I don't want to lie and say I've had loads of boyfriends. The thing is, I'm just not emotionally ready to be in a relationship, and I want any relationship I have to be a long one, so I'm obviously gonna have less boyfriends than everyone else. I don't mind that, I just mind being embarrased when I say 'one'. How can I avoid these conversations, or what should I say when they come up?

tell them the truth. they will understand that you aren't emotionally ready, and you want to wait to have a real relationship that'll last a while. they may even look up to you for being so honest and real. you should never be afraid to be your true self, because you can make a difference in anyones life!

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(Rating: 5) That was cool advice, thanks :D xx
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