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Q: OK when i first learned about sex back in middle school...i said to myself "im waiting until marriage" right away. I want to wait..because i dont know if i can deal with the emotions..but then again i want to do it (not now..definately not ready) in the future..you know when i find a bf when im like 18 + ..probably more like in my 20's though. I dont know..i just cant picture myself only havving sex with one man..plus im only 15 and im so curious about it now..im scared that what if i dont get married til im 30? I dont know if i can wait 15 more years..it seems to distant. How do i know for sure if im going to wait? or if im not? Do any of you out there have premarital sex..or have done it with a few people? Was the emotion too much for you when you broke up ? Or a one night stand..was that too much for you? I'll rate 5's
It's okay to change your mind, you were very young when you made that promise and you're still young now, you have a lot of life ahead of you! There is no law that says you have to wait until marriage, you could simply wait until you are in a long term relationship with somebody. And it does depend on what you count as sex, like powertrash said. It's your choice and nobody is going to think any less of you for having sex before marriage. However, they probably will think less of you if you go out with a guy once, have sex with him, and get pregnant. Though it doesn't matter what other people think, be responsible and don't ruin your life with sex. Sex is a beautiful thing, but so are fire and knives.

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