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[x][edit] - Since being on Advicenators there have been a lot of repetitive questions and innane ones at that. Because of this, I will not be answering as many questions as I had before. To put it simply, some people need to think for themselves. To learn things in life we have to fall down from our hardships, learn from them, and get to our feet again. People aren't just going to spoonfeed you on how to live your life.
To conclude, I'm a level-minded columnist who's not likely to judge. Although I may not understand some situations due to lack of experience, I am an understanding person and will do all I can to help. To people who are "not the brightest crayon in the box", I may appear blunt and brutally honest. Stupid questions deserve stupid answers.
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dear advice givers,
my life is falling apart. the big thing happening right now though is my friends hating me. usually i can give myself advice but this is one of the worst situations ive been in. ok let me start from the beginning...
yesterday my cousin came over. i love her so much so i was cheering about to rip my homework into confetti. so anyway, she saw that i was holding school pictures so she phyced. she asked if she could see them so i said, sure, why not? she grabbed the pictures and pointed to people saying, "geek, know-it-all, freak, annoying, popular, a cross between popular and pretty, stupid," and so on. i thought that was amazing because she was right except for a few people where she called them a geek and really they weren't. well i thought it was so cool that i couldn't keep it to myself, i wanted to tell my friends what she said! so i did near the end of the school day in my last class because i was deciding whether to tell them or not through the whole day. so my friends aren't happy with what they hear. only a few of them are because they were considered popular or pretty, or both. well the other people ended up thinking that -->I
anonymous -
Hey don't worry, there's still hope! It was wrong that you walked out on your friends, but that doesn't mean that you can't put things back together.
The way I see it is that your friends were just being sarcastic and you took it the wrong way. And since people are iming you saying that they don't hate you, most likely they are telling the truth. How do I know this? Who would go through all the trouble to im you JUST TO REASSURE YOU THAT YOU AREN'T HATED? No person would go through all that for nothing.
Just call up or go up to your friends and apologize for the way you reacted, you just took their words the wrong way is all. Ask them to clarify what they meant when they said those things and the misunderstanding will be settled.
What I think that may have caused you to react the way you did was maybe you were paranoid when the first comment shot out. Since then anything relating or significantly close to that topic that sounded the least bit offensive, you exploded. Don't worry, it happens to everyone :)
Good luck and take care!
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thanks, i ended up finding out that my friend were only mad at the people who were bragging that they were considered popular.. although i didn't take your advice, if i had to, i definately would have...
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