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Q: I've been dating my boyfriend for about 9 months now (I'm 15/f) and things have been going great! We love eachother very much but lately he's been getting to protective of me. I'm sure many of you know what a "myspace" is, if not it's a site where you pretty much make/find friends. One of my friends that is a guy commented on almost all of my pictures telling me how beautiful I was and how lucky my boyfriend is to be dating me yadda yadda yadda. My boyfriend sees the comments and gets really mad because he said it's a "dick thing to do" for a guy to call another guys girlfriend "hot" and "sexy" and "beautiful". He said to me "I don't know what goes on in your school and I don't trust the guys there." So, now he's mad at me for not saying anything to the guys who were merely COMPLIMENTING me. I said to him that he should be happy that another guy is telling me that I'm pretty because you're the one that is dating me and you're the one who has my heart. He said that's not the point, he doesn't want other guys saying I'm pretty. He's driving me FREAKING INSANE! I don't know what to say to him! He's never been like this up until a few weeks ago! I can't convince him that there is nothing for him to worry about. What should I do? This is getting out of control.
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He thinks you're his property. This is very common, I see girls in this situation all the time. They think it's "so sweet" that he gets jealous, but this is NOT a sign he cares. He wants to control you and doesn't want you to have any freedom, break up with him before it gets worse. And it will get worse, believe me. Best of luck! : )
In response to your comment: yes, I understand that, usually when a guy wants to control you that is how it starts, with him getting jealous when guys compliment you. Stay with him and it will get worse.
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I asked this question a few months ago, and I must say you were completely wrong. My boyfriend and I are doing fine. He's gotten better. I guess you were wrong. Not every situation is the same, you know.
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bio
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Call me Molly. I'm seventeen, female, and I love shoujo anime. I'm also a Level 1 Moderator.
My categories:
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Or just general stuff. I'll try my best to answer anything.
Warning: I'm known to give sarcastic as hell answers. Sorry, I can't help it. If you have a question that I think is mind numbing and stupid, I'm going to be sarcastic. My hope is that you will realize that my negative opinion of you doesn't make you any less of a person, and you will apply this knowledge and grow up to be a well-adjusted, confident person. Rate me 1 if you wish, but please try not to take it too seriously when I do this.
IF YOU WANT TO MAKE ME HAPPY...all it takes is a comment when you rate me. I will smile a lot and like you more. Even if you call me a crossdressing stoner. =)
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Info
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Website: Gender: Female Location: Earth, silly Occupation: artist Age: 17 Member Since: February 28, 2005 Answers: 426 Last Update: June 18, 2005 Visitors: 24386
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