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I'm 17 years old, i've been through alot, but it means i've got the expirience to help those going through the same or similar so that they don't end up lost like i did, i've been lucky enough to have alot of wisdom past on to me and i'd like to use this to help people so if you've got a problem c'mon =]] Let's hear it and i'll get back to you asap NickyBwoii .x.
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just warning you, this may get long!
last night me and my boyfriend of nearly 3 years were in my room and sleeping. not fooling around, literally sleeping. then my dad comes in and freaks out bitching like we had sex or something.
the situation is that i'm the only girl in the family and they treat me like crap. i do the dishes almost every night, take care of my sick grandma, do the laundry, clean the house, and do well in school yet they still look down upon me like i can't be trusted. i am a very responsible girl and i have had enough of them snooping through my room and checking up on me.
the only possible reason why i think they could be acting like this is that we don't communicate very well with each other, let alone get along. maybe bitching is their way of talking to me? even so, that doesn't explain the overprotectiveness!
my question is what can i do to make them trust me? i feel like i've done everything, all ending in failure.
i used to really HATE them for what they put me through, but when they made an effort to BE NICE things got better. our relationship has improved over the past two of months, but after what happened last night, my grudge against them has returned.
please help, i don't know what else i can do. it seems like nothing is ever good enough for them...
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You need to tell your parents about the way you feel because we are all entitiled to our privacy and you should not have to do all the jobs you do i mean you and your boyfriend were not having sex or anything you were sleeping and the reason they are over protective is because being the only girl in the family they don't want you to leave them deep down they really love you but they are hidding there feeling i don't think that they should go though your stuff or accuse you and your boyfriend of doing things so talk to them and tell them exactly how you feel......
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(Rating: 5) thanks for your advice, but i do have one older sister who has moved out (she's 31). i think what also contributed to this problem is the fact that my sister got pregnant a couple months before she got married...i'm thinking they think i'll be just as sex crazed as well lol. thanks for your input though i'll take it into consideration