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[x][edit] - Since being on Advicenators there have been a lot of repetitive questions and innane ones at that. Because of this, I will not be answering as many questions as I had before. To put it simply, some people need to think for themselves. To learn things in life we have to fall down from our hardships, learn from them, and get to our feet again. People aren't just going to spoonfeed you on how to live your life.

To conclude, I'm a level-minded columnist who's not likely to judge. Although I may not understand some situations due to lack of experience, I am an understanding person and will do all I can to help. To people who are "not the brightest crayon in the box", I may appear blunt and brutally honest. Stupid questions deserve stupid answers.

And yes, stupid questions DO exist.

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Location: Colorado
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Age: 18
Member Since: February 22, 2005
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Last Update: December 11, 2009
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im in love with this kid who ive lost my virginity to and i just started going out with him like 3 days ago and we got into a fight because my friend wanted them to leave her house so he went outside to sit so i followed him and he was really being mean and told me to leave and that he wasnt gonna come see me anymore (he lives in another town) so i went upstaries and started crying and my mom picked me up to take them home and i just got out of the car cuz i couldnt take it anymore. i love him so much and hes being so mean to me and i dont wanna call him and he hasnt called me, i dont know what to do. im so confused. i love him

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anonymous -

Tell me what's wrong with this picture...EVERYTHING! You sleep with the guy after 3 days of dating, you claim to "love him" also? Hun, how can you love someone after three days??? If you ask me it's infatuation rather than love...

To be BRUTALLY honest, it looks like he just used you for sex...and already leaving you after three days? The sex must've been horrible then!

Oh yea, about the advice part. Just move on and mingle. Life's too short to get butt hurt over something like this. Yea you lost your virginity, but I'm taking it that the big v doesn't mean a whole lot to you if you lost it with a guy in three days. Just move on and forget about it. What happens, happens for a reason. It's better to be happy than wallow in your sadness right?

Sorry for the bluntness, but reality isn't pretty. You can't always be told what you want to hear all the time, sometimes you just have to accept things for what they really are. Good luck.

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(Rating: 3) fuck you


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