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[x][edit] - Since being on Advicenators there have been a lot of repetitive questions and innane ones at that. Because of this, I will not be answering as many questions as I had before. To put it simply, some people need to think for themselves. To learn things in life we have to fall down from our hardships, learn from them, and get to our feet again. People aren't just going to spoonfeed you on how to live your life.
To conclude, I'm a level-minded columnist who's not likely to judge. Although I may not understand some situations due to lack of experience, I am an understanding person and will do all I can to help. To people who are "not the brightest crayon in the box", I may appear blunt and brutally honest. Stupid questions deserve stupid answers.
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Im not yet either but Im scareed I will become. Earlier this night i tried to make myself throw up. Im 14 5'1 and wiegh about 103. Most people think Im crazy because I think Im fatter than most people, but I do. How can I overcome this feeling, and actions. I know that if i become either it will be very hard to stop. please! I need help very bad! Im not afraid to admit it. so please if you read this, answer my question! please!
♥ scared
scared -
To overcome this feeling isn't as hard as you may think. You just need to come to the realization that you are skinny. You want some help? Look at all the obese people at your school. Watch "Shallow Hal". Hun, be fortunate that you're blessed with a petite body. A lot of people have it worse off than you, you're not as "fat" as you think. Come to that realization and you'll get over it.
Also, why are you forcing yourself to throw up? Don't you realize that girls your age halfway around the world are lucky enough to eat that amount of food you almost threw up? It's a waste!
Hopefully, this isn't for a guy...remember, guys like girls with a HEALTHY weight, not girls who are bone thin and malnourished. Even so, a good guy is a guy that likes you for who you are, not how much you weigh.
Just for the record, you have to EAT to be skinny. As contradictory as that may sound, by starving yourself you're only slowing down your metabolism making you more susceptible to gaining the pounds. Why? When you deprive yourself like that, any food you take in your body will grab those calories and fat and store them in case you starve yourself again. Your body is just using a mechanism to keep you alive...that's why people who constantly diet on and off are the overweight ones. If you get back to eating, your metabolism will slowly go up and you'll be able to burn the calories.
That's what I don't understand about girls with EDs. The true key to losing weight is eating healthy and exercising. Now who ever thought THAT would work? :)
Hope this helps!
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wow, that helpd alot! serious! hehe well IM me anytime niKAY3678 or ask me a question http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=sPaRkLeFaIrY290! thanks!
♥ nicole
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