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I don't know what to say! Some people call me mean but they just confuse me being mean with me being a bitch. Yes I'll admit...I'm a BITCH!!!
But hey I embrace it. I love having fun and partying. And I don't care what people think of me. And although I'm honest (too honest at times) I still like giving advice to people who are in need of help.
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Occupation: student/babysitter
Age: 14
AIM: nvme0212
MSN: nvme0212
Member Since: February 24, 2005
Answers: 12
Last Update: March 26, 2005
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My friend is mad at me but I don't know why. She got mad because I got back together with my boyfriend that I broke up with and she said this is all out of hand. Everytime she gets mad and tells me why she is mad I try and solve it and I end up sayign in the end that I am really sorry and I love you so much I don't want anything to come in between our relationship. Each time I say that she really seems not to care and she says you always say that junk. I asked her why she was mad at me and she just said I am okay and that's just to bad. I don't understand I DID NOT do anything to her at all. I want us to still be friends and we get in a lot of fights like maybe 2 or 3 a month and she starts mostly all of them actually all of them. I don't know if it is worth keeping the relationship or not I really want to but you know it might be for the best?? Help! (link)
There are two ways to look at you situation.
1) No friends is ever worth giving up over a guy. Once you lose the trust and respect you had for a friend it's hard to gain it back. Friends are forever...boys are whatever (lol). The worst thing to do is fight over a guy who's valuse is less than half the value that your relationship with your best friends has.

2) Your friend is buggin. She needs to stop being bitchy and prissy about it and she should be happy for you. Maybe she is jealous that she doesn't have a bf like yours. If she starts fights with you then...its her problem.

****But then again. Question yourself. Why is she even getting mad in the first place. What does she have against your man. Unless....they were messing around together. And now she's is jealous that you guys go back out cause she knows she can never have him.

But most likely she is just being a bitch about it. She probably thinks you spend more time with him than her. And that you favor or prefer him over her. She could also feel neglected as friend and lonely. And possibly sad that you guys aren't maybe a close as you guys used to be before your boyfriend was added into the picture.


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Thank you so much for the advice!!




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